Friday, February 3, 2012

I Don't Know Why the Kolaveri

Yet another post today that adds to the insignificance in our lives.
The last week has been weird. I have had all possible things happening to me. And nowadays, I get scared of Fridays because weekends are disasters. Nothing mine worth writing here, so I am going to write about what happened to a friend of mine, and in which direction I began thinking.

This friend of mine to whom I spoke when I much needed to, happened to tell me a story of his own which was actually painful. He has been fighting depression for a reason of his own(no points for guessing that it was provoked by a girl)

After this conversation, I logged in to facebook, and as usual the home page was filled with notifications of friends sharing pathetically insignificant photos. One of which, I found appropriate to his situation.


Unfortunate Reality   
Yes, strange things have happened to him, worse than what you see in the picture above. But I would have never felt sad for a guy if he were not my friend(not a close friend like this one). I would have just said "Serves all the guys right! " and keep going with my life.
Finding a soul mate or even searching your own soul for that matter is a freaky thing. (After my attempt to search my own soul, I preferred to tell myself that "ignorance is bliss" is the heights of enlightenment.)

These are things to do only if you are really tough with yourself or old enough to see the unexpected. And having such guts is next to impossible.
But for many people who think that a Prince/Princess would come to the rescue, life is only going to be an endless wait. Get out and save yourself, at least don't put yourself into trouble. Getting over an emotional situation is never pleasant whether you are a man or a woman. The more practical and principled you are in life, the lesser are the chances that you might get into trouble. If you let emotions take the lead, it is going to ruin you and make you its prisoner. I still don't understand how people break up and get depressed if that is what they volunteered to choose.
It is indeed tough for just any person. Blessed are the people who don't get angry even when provoked, who don't get sad even in turmoil, who don't cry even in pain. But neither will they be able to smile in happiness, or laugh in joy.

Something that I NEVER expected I will ever do, I did. I was listening to the Kolaveri song all Sunday, and found sense in it. (yes, I hate myself for that already)

Current track: midi 20- A French Slam by Grand Corps Malade


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